Tuesday, 25 January 2011

ADAB CINTA

Bismillah hirRahman nirRahiim,

Assalamualaikum,

Kullu am wa antum bikhair.


Someone googles 'adab cinta bagi seorang perempuan yang hafal AlQuran', and s/he finds my blog. I'm honoured, even though my blog doesn't provide any tips for love. But I'm really curious, is there any adab/ rules (rules, or etiquette, maxim, or basis could never describe 'adab', perhaps because the word conveys a very deep meaning on the soft behaviour, I don't know) for such lady when she is in love?

There are rules for players, I know, but I never apply it, it's a game too dangerous to play, and it's not a game in the first place. But to dictate some 'adab' when you are in love, wow, that takes love to a higher level than its already great position.

Seni seviyorum.






4 comments:

Amalina said...

Bagi saya tiada perbezaan antara hafiz/hafizah dan bukan hafiz-hafizah. Syarat dan batas pergaulan dalam agama perlu di observed oleh setiap muslim dan muslimah. Mungkin yang lebih aula ialah hafiz ditemu dengan hafizah, insya-Allah sekufu dari aspek keilmuannya, wallahu'alam. Apapun jodoh pertemuan di tanganNya, istikharah yang khusyuk lah penenang dan penyelesai..

Allah sentiasa melihat dan mengetahui apa yang kita lakukan. Di situlah peri pentingnya Ihsan. Maka adab bercinta/adab kehidupan seharian pasti menepati landasan agama. wallahu'alam

tepianmuara said...

haa


just wanna say,
i love how seni seviyorum sounds.

=)

Priceless said...

Amalina,

Ya, benar sekali, ngga kira dia hafiz kah, hafizah kah, orang biasa kah, pastinya punya standard yang sama kalau bercinta, ewah. Wow, you link it with ihsan concept, that's pretty amazing.

I think when you are in the relationship, the ihsan concept becomes more important.

Priceless said...

tepianmuara,

Really? I like the Russian version better, but I couldn't find the one that I like.

Well, in the land that you are right now, they say Te Amo aii? In both lands. Wow.